Door for Your Success Part 3

Try to make things easy for your future:

We all know that the future is important for us so it is important to make things easy for our future. For example: If you have exams after three months and you know it tries to learn things and you should start it now make things easy for exams last night. If you have time try to utilize it. If you are a student not only focus on study and study but if you have spare time try to do creative things to boost your productivity level. What is the future? In simple words, we can say that a time which has come next. We don’t know about the situation which can come in our future so we need to be prepared for that situation. Believe that you can do anything.

Try to love people not money:

Many people think that if they have enough money they can live a great life but remember this thing: life without people is nothing and money is not everything. If you have money and with the help of that money you can buy you basics things this is a guarantee that you will be live a happy life. We know that if we want to wear things or dresses of our own will money is important. Money is not important than people but if you want enough money to buy gifts for your family this is correct because in this you need money for those people which you love. Don’t think that money buys happiness. Due to money, we can only buy those things which make us happy but do you think what happens next after some time? You will get a board from that thing which you buy for your happiness. This is the reality of happiness which you buy from money. This is true that if you wanted to buy a thing for your happiness you can buy it but before buying this thing. Think in your mind. Is it worth it to you? Or is it worth to your talent? Can you do a creative thing when you buy this? If you have money try to buy those things which make your parents happy. Do this for your parent's happiness because there is nothing like a parent in this whole world. Think about those times when you are little and you cry for toys or special food and your parent buy it for you.

Why money and love both are important?

Money:

Everything has its own importance in our life. We know that we use the money for a lot of things for buying food, clothes, to buy a house, to pay bills, etc. we can say that money is important. Money can make our life comfortable. In our life, we need a things to stay healthy money helps us to buy these things. With the help of money, we can explore the world. Money creates more opportunities for you whether it is about a job or business. Money can give you freedom. Money can give us opportunities to study.

Love:

Besides money, love is also important in life. Every person wants love to live. Love is so important because it gives us motivation. It gives us energy. It gives us chance to attract people. Love is also important for us if we want to live a happy life. It is important for us to love our family.

What is love?

We can say that love is the strongest force in the world which holds many people to gather. We can also say that love is an attraction force between people. Love is an emotional feeling for someone. We can also say that it is something unconditional. Love or feeling for someone comes naturally.

Difference between love and like:

Love is a thing that is unconditional while liking someone means that you are happy or feel better with that. Love is different from like because in love we think about your partners or someone which you love happiness. We wanted to do those things which make your lover happy while liking someone is totally different from love. In like you think about only your own happiness and you want those people to talk to you only for your happiness. You want to spend time with someone because it makes you happy. For example: If we talk about food suppose you love to eat rice but you are better with meat because you like meat. Second example: if we love a flower you cannot be plucked it because we know that if we plucked when few days passed he is not fresh but if you like a flower you simply plucked it because of your own happiness.

Love those who love you:

This is one of the most common problems. People want another person to love him/her. It is important for us to find those people who love us. Love is not only between girls and boys. This is a problem we don’t see those who love us now no matter they are your parents your sibling and your cousins. You should tell your parents that you love them so much. If you love someone tell them whether they’re your parents, siblings, or friends. It’s important for us not to always busy at work but also spend time with parents talk to them about her/him health and asked them if they want something. It is important for us to love those who love us as long as they are alive whether they are your friend, family. Try to live in present and focus on people if someone needs your help or not. There is some story that a son or daughter after married forgets his/her parent or when their parents died they think about it that why they can’t see her/his parents why they can’t return that happiness to them which their parents give to them. It is important for us to give happiness to those who give us happiness.

Always try to focus on people around you:

It is important not too busy in your work all the time but also focuses on people around us. Ask people are they fine. Many people want someone to talk with. Try to talk with people if they wanted to talk to you. Talk to people about his/her health. Develop a sense of humor in you and try to make people laugh. People want those who make them laugh so a sense of humor is important.

Don’t be afraid to tell your feeling to someone:

Telling feeling didn't mean that confessing love between opposite geneder. but it also mean confess your love to your parent because in some cases parent just want to hear this. If you love someone tell them. We cannot hide our feeling because if you hide they destroy you from inner. This thing is also painful if you love someone and he/she doesn’t know about it. It is important to have both sides love not only one side. Some people have also Animotophobia which is called fear of emotion so they can’t tell his/her feeling to someone but if you take care of that person he/she can recover. So the second reason is maybe due to lack of confidence or maybe he/she always think about what that person reaction if they tell his/her feeling to them.

The reason why we tell our feeling to someone:

It is hard for us to tell our feeling to someone. If you tell your feeling to someone they believe that this love is not one-sided. It provides us happiness. We know that if we sharing our feeling with someone we feel free. Tell someone what you feel about him/her no matter they are your parents. don't let other people die without hearing your feeling. Life is too short. We don’t know what type of situation tomorrow morning brings to us. Telling your feeling to someone gives you the confidence to talk with people. Don’t wait for the situation. This thing is true that life is full of uncertainty. You don’t know what happens next. If you hide you feeling all the time you are getting depressed in these thoughts. The thing which you need if you want to tell you feeling to someone is confidence. Believe that nothing has changed when you say it.

Aware of that thing which you do earlier:

Think about these things if you do these things earlier. For example bullying someone, made fun of someone, breaking the trust of others, taking revenge, or another thing that hurt others. This is a very common mistake of persons that people do. Some do in their childhood.

Bullying:

Bulling is not a thing that is only happening in school by kids. Some people are bullied by others at the workplace or other places etc. The first question which comes in our mind about bullying is why do people bully others? So there is not an exact answer to this question.

Reasons why people/kids bully others:

There can be many reasons why some bully others

• Rewarded for this behavior in his/her house by parents or older siblings.
• They wanted to control others.
• Maybe feeling that they are powerless.
• Because of his/her home environment.
• Due to a lack of a parent's attention.

Effects of bullying on people:

Bullying changes the life of a person. These are effects due to bullying.

• People lose their self-confidence.
• People get depressed.
• Teen suicide.
• It can cause social anxiety (social phobia).
• People feel loneliness.
• Lose interest in activities.

How to overcome bullying?

These are some point which helps you to overcome bullying.

• Speak to that person why he/she bullying you.
• Said to them stop it.
• Don’t think that you are a problem for others.
• Try to deal with your stress.
• Don’t be silent.
• If you are bullied at school complaint it to your teacher. If you can’t do this tell your parents.

Remember this thing:
“If you suffer in silent you ruin your life with yourself”. Never made fun of someone:

In our daily life by made fun of someone is very bad habits of us. We should never make fun of someone for these things.

• Work whether it is school homework, office work, or the thing which he wanted to do.
• Someone choice in clothes, shoes, food, movies, dramas, cartoons, animes.
• Someone appearance.
• Someone who has broken English.

We should never make fun of someone who works due to this they think that can’t do anything. This is a very bad habit of people because this habit can hurt peoples.

Never hurt someone feeling:

We should never hurt someone because the person which is hurt never says a word but when you hurt by someone you understand that person's pain. It can cause depression. It can also cause death. Try to feel other pains don’t think that your words never hurt someone. We should control our tongue because words hit badly then a weapon.

Accept your current situation:

Don’t blame others for your situation. You are for yourself. It is important to knowledge about our true selves. It is important to know which type of ability are present in yourself. What is your talent? Which of work you can do easily perfectly. Try to develop skills in yourself. Find yourself.

What is the meaning of finding yourself?

Finding your self means finding your talent your abilities your productivity level. This is a common mistake of people that they can’t look at his/herself and only look to those people which are standing on the top of the mountain. Standing at the top of the mountains means which are succeeded.

Accept reality:

We need to accept reality. Accept yourself. Facing the reality is not easy for anyone. This is hard but this is not impossible. Some person living in his/her past, this is something which is happened but they can’t accept that and in present always think about that which is happened because for them can’t accept the reality and said reality is harder to accept. This is hard but if you try you can face it. Don’t hate yourself. Try to create yourself. If you do any mistake admit your mistake and move on.

Break your bad habits:

Breaking your bad habit is very important because it can cause various problems. For example, your bad habit is to see dramas all the time and due to this, you can’t focus on your studies/office work/housework. Some bad habit is due to diseases. Many people have bad habits of drinking alcohol or smoking so these habits are harmful to you. A bad habit cannot let us work hard for our goals. Imagine if you don’t do hard work how will you succeed? We have a habit of eating junk food. We need to break these bad habits. These are those habits that destroy your happiness.

• Procrastination in work.
• Always blame others.
• Not facing the reality.
• Run from your life problem.
• Always comparing yourself with others.
• Compare your color complexion with others.
• Suffered in silence.
• Looking at those things which you don’t have in life.
• Not appreciating the movements around you.
• Making fun of other peoples.

What is depression?

Depression is a mental illness that affects your feeling, think. Due to this a person can lose interest in those activities once enjoyed. Depression also causes due to tension about things. In simple words, we can also say that depression is a feeling of sadness. A person may feel helpless.

Reason of depression:

There are many reason form which a person can depress. Some of the come reason which can be a depressed person is:

• Tension.
• By hurting by someone.
• Loneliness.
• Always think about the past.
• Without friends.
• Without appreciation.

Depression is also caused health condition of person:

• Cancer
• Heart disease
• Stroke

If we take care of that person, it has recovered.
“Forget those people who hurt you yesterday don’t forget those people who loves you every day.”

“Life is a question paper and in this world, every person have their own different question papers.”

“Stop wasting your time worrying about those people which do not agree with your idea of doing that work.”

“Don’t be sad if you can’t find away. Just create it.”

“Try to live with you all might. This thing makes you happy.”

“By believing yourself you can face the reality.”

“Do work with your all might then you will succeed.”

“No matter you want to live a meaningful life or normal being happiness is important in life.”

“Life is not a game of good luck bad luck if you want to succeed work hard.”

“Life is like a movie but in this movie, you are hero and hero always work hard so do hard work and shocked the people with your result.”

“The important thing is to try to be better than yesterday you are.”

“Always focus on possibilities, not on the problem.”

“Good people are just like the sun and we know that the sun can sets everything is not forever.”

“You should never lose your hope, the sun of happiness will never leave you in pain.”

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