Door for Your Success Part 2

Set a big goal but you should break this in smaller goals. The other example is if you want to become a scientist the first thing is to know is what field of science you want to specialize in. If you know which filed science filed you are interested in then you should take many high school courses and then earn a bachelor's and master's degree in the field which you are interested in.
So the important thing is to set a goal and break it into smaller goals.

Don’t just see the dream try to do work:

It’s a very strange thing that we are doing in our life. The important reason of this thing is we don’t know how to take the first step. We know that sometimes we have a plan to do some work but when the time of that work has come we said to ourselves that the next day we will do that work no problem. There is a problem in ourselves that we are doing procrastination all the time even if we know that this is not good for work. Some people don’t work because they need the inspiration to do work. This is also problem that the work which we want to do we think a lot about that work and then start it but it is important to take the first step. We are all afraid to take the first step.

Why the first step is important?

Taking the first step in any work is very important. We know that we are all afraid of doing this. This is the nature of humans that we want success for the first time but this is not possible. This is a different thing that you have a talent for doing something and you don’t know you do that work and you do very great work for the first time. This is a reality that

“Taking the first step is hard but when you take this everything has changed in your life”

We can also say that taking first is a very important part of doing any work. The first step is important to take. Just take step and sees nothing has changed in your life by taking first you are gaining something. The first step is key to reach our goals that is why it is so important.

How to take the first step?

We all know that the taking first step is hard but why it is hard we are not fully prepared to do work some people didn’t know how to get out of their comfort zone many people have fear because they are afraid to fail. Some people do procrastination these are some come reasons why people take the first step. These are some important point for us to take the first step:

• Don’t wait for someone to give you a chance.
• Believe in your dream. That one day it will come true.
• Don’t think that your achieved success in the first step.
• Set a time for work.
• Don’t wait for inspiration. Give motivation to yourself with positive thinking.
• If you fail in the first attempt try again.
• Don’t wait for the perfect situation.
• Don’t wait for other people to agree with your idea because we cannot make everyone happy with our idea.
• Always try to focus on progress not perfection in your skill. You can gain perfection with practice from time to time.

“Fear is present inside us but the important thing is we cannot let this fear to win from us”

Don’t be impatient for success:

We all know that everything needs time to grow/success. For example, if you want a tree with leaves and flowers in one night it is not possible so if you start a business then it’s not according to your expectation in the first three months after starting a business. The important thing is don’t be sad if in starting you feel that this work is useless. This is a guarantee that if you work hard you will have succeeded. Do work hard and believe that you will succeed one day and that day you will be perfect in your work. Many people have a craze to see which type they can do so they want to do work quickly. Believe in yourself as believing is very important to believe in your dream that one day this dream will come true.

“Never lose hope because our dreams and goals need time to come true”

Don’t waste your time:

If we say that we should not waste our time. Some people think that it means work for 24 hours but this is wrong. Wasting of time means that we are not doing work on time. Some people are also wasting time because they do not have a schedule for doing work. It is important for us that we should not waste our time if we want to reach our goals. Researchers tell that four hours of the morning is productive because at this time a person can do work more productively than in the day time and night hours but some people have their own time of productivity. Some people think that if we are work for four hours and then you take a long break and in this, you check your mobile it is waste of time. According to some people walking for a while or eating food is a break not checking mobile. If your heart won’t allow doing work then tell him if he wants success do work for it this is important. If you don’t have a mood of doing work at that time which you set so do that thing which makes you happy and then later try to do work for the goal.

Enjoying life with your family is not a waste of time

Spending time with your family and go to the hilly area for trekking and picnic is not a waste of time it means in doing work you cannot forget your family. When we go on a trip with or a friend or other relative it means that people are important from work. Work has also important in our life everything has its own importance.

Aware of your mental health:

What is mental health?

Mental health means to cope with or daily normal life stress and work productively. If you have better mental health you realize your abilities.
Importance of mental health:

Mental health is a vital part of our life. Mental health also affects our thoughts and behavior and also on our work. We all know that if we are healthy we can work properly. We all know that if we are healthy we are able to face that obstacle that coming in our way of the goal. Being mentally healthy promotes productivity in the activity of our daily life. Mental health also helps you to cope with the problems.

How to improve mental health?

There are many things we should follow if we want to improve our mental health. These are some small thing which is important if we want to improve our mental health: eating, sleep well, exercise and remember that movement which you are grateful for. Another method if you sad see those things which entertained you many people have different things which entertain them. Some people entrained when watching animes. Some entertained when watching action dramas and action movies.

Work for a better future
Many peoples/children have an issue that they don’t want to do work. If you don’t want to do work first think about your future about your goals which you set think that if you won’t do work you won’t succeed. In this world, many people are working to achieve their big goals. We can say that life without a goal is useless.

Don’t give up

Always try to polish your skills. The future is very important. If the sadness comes tell this that the past is passed if in past I won’t do it but now in present I will work hard and I will succeed. Some people want a quick result in work but believe that it is not possible that you succeed in the first attempt but this is possible if you have a talent you can do better work in the first attempt. We can see a lot of people in our daily life who succeed now but not always focus on the success it important to see the obstacle which these people face. Keep this sentence in your mind everything needs time. Believe that you are responsible for your future. Believe in this sentence that if you work hard you will succeed future is in your hand.

Age doesn’t matter

Many people think they do not have the age of doing some special type of work that adults are doing. Many people judge others by their age this is a very bad habit but this is human nature and we know that we can’t change the nature of humans. Some people which are around 40 think that if they can’t do that work for some reason in past may be due to lack of sources and in this age, they can’t do that work but you can do it. The thing is peoples not only judges other people but they also judge her/himself with others talks. The important thing is don’t care about those who don’t like you or not agree with your point of view of doing that work at this age. Always think about yourself because people only know how to talk they don’t know our feeling about that work. Remember this

“We cannot make all the people happy, no matter how hard we try”

Some teenagers want to do a job in his/her school or college life but his/her parent said that you have not much age to do work because they think that job can affect your study. For this, you have to show them that you can balance your work or study. Another advice you can also choose that type of job or earning method that won’t affect your study for example: Took photographs of nature and then sell these online because there are many websites that can sell the picture, make your own blog, making a YouTube channel. Try to show your parent that you can manage your work and study. In first maybe they don’t understand you but try again to believe that one day they will understand you.
Some people think that in his/her childhood if they were lack resources and the work they wanted to do in past they can’t do it. Then they won’t do that work in the present that they wanted to do in past. Don’t think that you can’t do that work which you wanted to do in past but due to lack of resources you can’t do it in the past. Now if you have a power of doing work you can do this now whether it is seeing the cartoon, making a portrait, playing with a football, setting a goal if don’t want to set a big you can set a small goal, finding talent finding passion. Don’t think that you don’t have the age of doing that work which you like if life gives you chances to try to use it.

Don’t be sad if people find a mistake in your work:

Some people have this issue that if they show their work to someone the other said that you made mistake in that place. This thing happens in almost every person’s life. This is a come problem that we didn’t focus on progress and only focus on mistakes. Remember this thing the people around are also responsible for your motivation. If a person cannot admire you it means that he/she didn’t understand you’re feeling about his work. And another reason is if a person didn’t appreciate your work is maybe he thinks that if he appreciates your work you stop hard working in that work but the thing if people don’t like your work you should love your work because you are doing your best in the work. Do your work and believe that one you will be professional. The important thing is if someone shows his/her work to us. We should appreciate it believes that he is not professional in that work. We should not tell someone his/her mistake if he didn’t ask. If you are able to correct that mistake which other person makes then you can tell his/her.

Believe in yourself that you can do it:

Believe in yourself is a very important step for reaching goals.

What is believe?

The meaning of believe is accepted that (something) true without proof but when we say that believe in yourself it is lit bit different because it means that first love yourself. You do not made yourself so this is not a problem what your face looks like? and what is your color complexion? love yourself. It also means respect yourself and respect your work which you do whether it is not perfect.

Why believe in yourself is important?

Believing yourself is important because due to this you recognize your abilities to do work or to reach your goals. By believing yourself you can face your fear no matter what type of fear it is. Just believe that you can do anything. Remember this thing: Doubt can destroy more dreams than failure. If you believe yourself nothing is impossible for you except work. Believe that you can do work for your goal under any circumstances. Every day, you see a lot of people doing that work which you want to do this is because they believe in themselves. We all know that if we want to succeed we should do hard work but besides this hard work it’s important to believe in ourselves. For example: In our life we hear that. That child can do that work which many adults cannot do but do you think why how that child can do that what’s the reason? So the reason is that child has believed in her/himself? Believing yourself also provides us self-confidence. This is a common issue that first when we start work and when the hard stage of work has come we are lacking our believe but try to hold your believe and say to yourself that you can do it.

How to believe in yourself?

First of all, don’t let your fear win from you. There are some ways in which you can believe in yourself.

• Try to become a winner in your battle with fear.
• Talk with yourself that you can do it.
• Trust in yourself that you can face any obstacle coming in your way.
• Motivate yourself and tell yourself if others do that work which I wanted to do why I don’t do that.
• Accept your current situation whether it is finical or about your health. You can do work under any circumstance for your goals.
• Find a coach for yourself which helps you recognize your abilities for goals.
• Move forward and forward never look back past is past now.
• Trust that future is everything.
• Every person's life is full of up and down. If in doing work you feel that it is harder and you are near to giving up. One voice in your head tells you to stop but never listen to that voice keep going never stop.
• Don’t be sad if you fail in the first attempt try again and again and believe that one day you will succeed.

What is important in life?

For this question, people have different answers some say family is important some say work for goal is important. These are important when you are living a meaningful life.

• Always try to become a better role model for other people/children.
• Focus on your personality.
• Try to inspired people around you with your personality not with beauty.
• Enjoying your life with your family.
• Have a meaning full life.

What is personality?

In simple words, we can say that a person's way of thinking, behavior, feeling, characteristics, appearance, and way of talk makes his/her different from others so it is personality.

Why a good personality is important?

We all know that a human being is a social animal. We need others to live. If we have a good personality people attract to us. We can also say that our personality is the key to attract people. We know that if we have a good personality people want to spend time with you.

Importance of personality development:
Personality is important because if your personality is attractive people not only remember you before but after your death and at this time you will become a role not only for people/children but for the next generation also. It is also important for us to never made fun of any person's work if you know that he/she is not professional in that work this thing can affect your personality image around people. It is important not only to respect a boss or people older from you but also to respect those workers or people younger than you. We should not copy other behavior or the style of communication. This thing is important we should have our own attitude and have our own communication skills. This thing is similar to this situation if we want to do battle. We should learn our moves by him/her selves. We should respect the people around us due to this we not only famous in people with personality but they can also give us respect and pride.

How to improve your personality?

We know that personality is important if we want to attract people. These are some ways in which we can improve our personality.

• Try to become a good listener.
• Have a good communication skill.
• Have a better attitude.
• Try to develop a sense of humor in yourself because peoples want those person and try to talk with them which makes them laugh.
• Treat other people with respect no matter they are a child or your boss.
• Try to become supportive to others.

Why is family important than work?

Family is important than work because it provides us love support but in family, parents are more important because there is nothing in this world just like parents. They always support you. Sometimes they do not understand you but this did not mean that they did not love you.
Work is not very important because we can do work for making money. It is important for us when you’re alive to take care of your family whether you are married or not. We should respect our family because we can share our problems with family. It is important for us if we are married do not forget our parents take care of them as long as you are alive. If you are married and you have children spend time with your children because it is important for those. Showing your children that you love them. Family is most important for us especially parents which provide us food, shelter, and other things which we want.

What is the importance of work?

Work is important for our physical health and also for mental health it also contributes to happiness. Work helps us to build self-esteem. In simple words, we can say that work whether paid or unpaid is important for health because if we don’t do work our abilities are going to dead. We all know that if we wanted to fulfill our dreams work hard is needed. Work is also important for the future if we want a better future we should work hard. Work is important for success and goals. Work is important after and before marriage because after marriage you have the responsibility of a child and before marriage, you have the responsibility of the family. Work is important if we do a different type of work we know our own abilities or talent. If we do a different type of work we know our productivity level.
We can say that everything has its own importance in our life so everything is important but family and personality are more important than work because your personality makes your social image. We should take care of our family it is important.

Don’t be afraid to say no:

Many people have an issue that the time in which they wanted to do work someone said to him/her can we going to that place. At this time they can’t refuse them and forget his/her work and go with those people. If you have a fixed time of doing work which you set according to your productivity do that work at that time because it is your time of productivity. Some people do not say no to others because they don’t want to hurt the feeling of the person in front of them. It is a common problem that we are afraid to say no or to reject. Some people are afraid to say no because they don’t have confidence and self-esteem.

How to say no?
These are some way in which you can say no:

• Having self-esteem and self-confidence that you are doing right. Saying no is important for your own work.
• Stay firm when saying no.
• Don’t think that what other persons say about yours.
• Be selfish if you want to say no. Think about your work which you want to do.
• If needed you can also you ‘because’ with no.

How to develop self-confidence?

Self-confidence is important for every person. Some people want to talk with new people but they can’t do that due to a lack of confidence. We always worried about what happens if I say something wrong. What people say about me? Boosting your confidence is very important don’t think that what people say don’t judge yourself with other talks. Love yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Believe in yourself that different from others but if you feel that you are not different from others. Do that type of work which people can’t do. For example Mostly artist use special skin color to draw skin but if you do something different try to create that type of portrait with normal color. Take care of your body. You are responsible for your physical and mental health. Quickly just say those words which you want to say. Don’t let your fear win from you. Think about yourself. For example: If the teacher selects you in a speech competition and in a stage you don’t say any word due to lack of confidence what happens? You won’t win a prize. You won’t get a position whether it is 2 or 3.
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